One More Day...in Theory

Alright Madison it's the day before your due date.

Every one - parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends - are all on the edge of their seat waiting for me to send word that Meghan has gone into labor.  I've gotten several texts already wondering if you've started your journey to the outside word.  Unfortunately I have to tell everyone that so far there's been no sign that you're ready to come out.  No real contractions, no Braxton Hicks contractions, nothing.  The closest we get are some cramps that your mom has.

We're in this strange holding pattern.  We can't really go anywhere or do anything too time consuming cause your mom could start getting contractions at any time.  I really hope you come tonight or tomorrow cause other wise this is going to be a long boring weekend!  Plus we're both kinda looking forward to a little time off work and if you came this weekend I'd get a nice little extra long vacation cause I'd take next week off and get Labor Day off as well.

So come on! Get to it!  We can't wait to see your little baby face for the first time!

Come Out Already!

Ok Madison - we're down to the final week here and everyone is on the edge of their seat waiting for your mother to go into labor.  Every day I get texts from my friends in Atlanta, "Is she in labor yet?".  Every morning I ask Meghan if she's had any contractions.  So far nothing!  Your mom went to her weekly checkup on Monday and you hadn't progressed at all.  AND you had turned so that your head was up on top again, facing the wrong way.

Meghan is very big now and uncomfortable all the time.  At the very least you could vacate the womb for her?

My parents come up to meet you for the first time a week from today.  I hope that we have a baby to show them!  The plan is that if you haven't be delivered naturally by Monday than we'll get a sonogram and if everything looks good Meghan will get induced by the end of the week.  In that scenario things get a little dicey for the visiting Georgia grandparents.

I know your technical due date is this Saturday but I just can't wait to meet you so why don't you come on out early?  Do it for dad?

Love
Dad

10 Days

Hello Madison,

We're only 10 days away from meeting you for the first time!  At least that's the plan.  After 2 weeks of progress towards delivery this week's visit to the doctor revealed no change :(  You're pointed the right way but you've got a ways to go in the downward direction before you're ready to come out.  People were hoping you'd come early, perhaps on your Mom's birthday on the 16th, but it looks like the best we can hope for is that you're on time.  Don't be late!  My parents are flying up here for Labor Day weekend and you need to be born by then!

Over the weekend your Mom had me put together a shelving unit for all your toys.  You're not even born yet and you already have enough toys for a whole storage unit! I thought that it should be put in the basement because that's where you'd spend most of your time playing but she wanted it near your room.  Since you're reading this in the future you'll know who turned out to be right.  I'm guessing your father had to eventually move that stupid shelf down two flights of stairs...

That's about it for now.  Remember - be on time!

Love,
Dad

Two Weeks...

Hello Madison!

We are getting into the red zone now with your delivery.  Only 2 weeks (and a day) until your due date.  You Mom is now going to the doctor every week to make sure things are going well and thankfully everything is.  The doctor says Meghan is almost 2cm dilated up from 1cm last week which means that you're getting ready to come out.  She couldn't tell us if that meant you'd be coming early though.

By this point I'm sure your Mom would appreciate you coming a little early - she's very uncomfortable these days and is waking up in the middle of the night and not being able to fall asleep.  And she's hot all the time.  Ask her how much I loved her little fan every night during that last trimester :)

Your Grandparents Reining were in Europe for the past week for a wedding.  They were seriously worried about you arriving while they were over there.  I kept telling Meghan to text them that we were in the hospital but she wouldn't go with the joke.  Boo!

I'll leave you with this picture I saw on Twitter today that I found very amusing.  Hopefully you've got a good sense of humor like your Dad...

Holy Crap Only A Month To Go!?

Hey Madison,

Here's your mom at 36 weeks.  At this point you're so big that any movement you make can be seen on her belly.  And you're moving around a lot.  I've felt you go from one side of her belly to the other.  Also you hiccup a lot in there.

Meghan is really starting to get tired of being pregnant at this point.  She doesn't sleep that well cause you're kicking her all night and its hard for her to get in a comfortable position laying on the bed.  Of course we don't want you to be born early but please try to be on time and not hold up in there for a couple extra days!

Love,
Dad

Less Than 5 Weeks To Go!

Hello Madison,

We are rapidly approaching D-day (delivery day).  In less than five weeks we'll meet you for the first time.  We can't wait!  I was telling your mother that I've stopped keeping track of the passage of time by what day of the week or month it is - instead everything is based on the distance from the day when you'll be born.

This weekend was a "barn burner".  I weeded all morning and then in the afternoon your mom and I went to the dentist for our 6 month cleanings.  Romantically we sat next to each other as dental technicians scraped plaque off our teeth and told us to floss more.  After that craziness we went to Wal-Mart to buy snacks for your mom's office.  Sunday we met your grandparents Reining for breakfast at Burnt Toast and then hit up the grocery store and Costco.  After all that excitement I had to relax by putting together your baby swing and bassinet.  Yes we'll miss mad capped weekends like this after you're born...

I think pretty much everything you need once you've left the womb is ready at the house.  Your mom is now on the second "Bringing home from the hospital outfit" for you.  Apparently the 1st one, which was SOOOO CUTE a week ago, is no longer cute so she had to get you a new one.  I don't know why she bothered - I bought you a perfectly good Batman onesie for the ride home.  What more could you want than the honored symbol of The Bat on your chest?

Love,
Dad

Month & A Half To Go!

Well Madison it seems like just yesterday I was frantically running out to CVS at 10 at night to grab more pregnancy tests to confirm what the 3 previous tests had told us.  These past 7.5 months have gone by quick.  Maybe more so for me than your mother.  I haven't been saddled with the whole task of growing a new human being inside me like she has.

As you get bigger and bigger (this size of a LARGE cantaloupe now 21 inches long and 5.5 lbs - I don't know where this app finds its cantaloupes but I've never seen one that big) your movements and kicks inside the womb are more and more intense to Meghan.  You're running out of room quick in there!  I can see her belly moving around when you decide to switch positions.

Your room is all ready for your arrival.  Mom took a week off to get everything organized and wash all your little clothing.  A ton of clothing which people tell me we'll use all of because you're going to be pooping all over everything at an alarming rate.

This past weekend was your Uncle Chris (Reining)'s wedding.  Not to be confused with your Uncle Chris (Peters) whose wedding is a month after you're born which you may or may not attend depending on what the doctor tells us.  It was your mom's 3rd wedding being pregnant and thus not enjoying all the thrills an open bar can bring.  Unfortunately for me I enjoyed it all too much and was quite hung over the next day.  I blame your Grandma Penny and the bottle of tequila she smuggled in to the event.

Here's your Mom in her bridesmaid dress.  This was quite a problem as you got bigger and bigger.  She was worried she was going to be too big to get into it.  Thankfully she was able! Sorry for the blurs. iPhones aren't great at pictures in motion.  Maybe since you're reading this in THE FUTURE they have improved their camera?

Here's your Uncle and his groomsmen before the wedding.  The horse masks were Chris's idea.  I think they looked hilarious.  Later in the evening, after several drinks, your father could be seen on the dance floor in one of those horse masks doing the robot.  Thankfully I don't think any pictures were taken of that...

...but I certainly got a picture of your Uncle Chris as he rampaged around the dance floor in one!  At this point in the night he had stripped down from his wedding suit to just a tshirt and slacks.  He was totally the life of the party.